Penelope
Member
- Joined
- Aug 28, 2012
- Messages
- 23
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 08/2012
- Country
- AU
- State
- VIC
- City
- Melbourne
Re: Dad in hospital infection? Breathing a problem
Good morning.
Dad passed away 2 hours ago at 115am. I am typing now as I cannot sleep and am lying in a bed at my parents house trying to wrap my head around this.
He had seemed a little better the last two days we had given him a couple of pieces of good news he seemed keen to type things on his iPad to get across to us. I reassured him those things would be taken care of that we would do everything with Mum in mind and I left the room for the last time telling him I loved him.
He was using morphine 3 hourly in the end there was talk of putting in a driver in the next day or so.
Mum called to check on him 4 hours before he passed he had been a little agitated but once he had meds was resting comfortably.
They called 4 hours later to say he had passed peacefully.
Things I am glad for:-
He could communicate his wishes til the end was lucid comfortable and able to smile a little at good news about his kids/grandkids
He only spent two weeks of his life in hospital in reasonable comfort and not scared
He had marvellous caring staff attending him
That I could tell him I loved him and ease his fears for Mun
That he wasn't scared or sick in his last hours with a temp or infection and that he passed in his sleep
He was strong and stubborn and held onto to his dignity humour to the end and went with out additional intervention or suffering
My sadnesses are for my loss that I can't see him speak to
Him or kiss him again.
I hope his mates were waiting for him with a scotch and soda and a juicy steak and that wherever he is now he can walk talk breathe and be at peace
Thank you all for your comments and support you are an amazing bunch dealing with an awful illness and I salute you and appreciate the time you have given me.
I will be back in to check on you and keep updated.
Fly free Dad I love you forever
Good morning.
Dad passed away 2 hours ago at 115am. I am typing now as I cannot sleep and am lying in a bed at my parents house trying to wrap my head around this.
He had seemed a little better the last two days we had given him a couple of pieces of good news he seemed keen to type things on his iPad to get across to us. I reassured him those things would be taken care of that we would do everything with Mum in mind and I left the room for the last time telling him I loved him.
He was using morphine 3 hourly in the end there was talk of putting in a driver in the next day or so.
Mum called to check on him 4 hours before he passed he had been a little agitated but once he had meds was resting comfortably.
They called 4 hours later to say he had passed peacefully.
Things I am glad for:-
He could communicate his wishes til the end was lucid comfortable and able to smile a little at good news about his kids/grandkids
He only spent two weeks of his life in hospital in reasonable comfort and not scared
He had marvellous caring staff attending him
That I could tell him I loved him and ease his fears for Mun
That he wasn't scared or sick in his last hours with a temp or infection and that he passed in his sleep
He was strong and stubborn and held onto to his dignity humour to the end and went with out additional intervention or suffering
My sadnesses are for my loss that I can't see him speak to
Him or kiss him again.
I hope his mates were waiting for him with a scotch and soda and a juicy steak and that wherever he is now he can walk talk breathe and be at peace
Thank you all for your comments and support you are an amazing bunch dealing with an awful illness and I salute you and appreciate the time you have given me.
I will be back in to check on you and keep updated.
Fly free Dad I love you forever