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  1. mj95
    03-23-2013 07:57 AM - permalink
    mj95
    Hi Poppy,

    Been thinking about you. My 11 yr. old son has been told that he is a very good writer. That he writes with a voice. I told him about how much I enjoy reading your blogs. You have such a way with words. I picture everything that you write about. If you were considering a new job, you should choice writing. I hope you and the family are doing well. My mom came up to NY last week. It was the 1st time I saw her since my dad died. It was bitter sweet. Today would have been my dad's 76th b-day. I have been crying. My 8 yr. old son, woke up, gave me a hug & went back to sleep. I hope you have a lot of hugs at home. Sending you hugs from NY.
  2. skipper66
    03-13-2013 04:30 PM - permalink
    skipper66
    Hi Mair,
    Thinking of you. Sending you a hug, Kim
  3. skipper66
    02-24-2013 01:45 PM - permalink
    skipper66
    Hi Mair,
    Thinking of you. Saw where you were going to look for a job. What kind of work do you want to do? I know it will be scary for you at first but I think you'll enjoy it once you get started. I love the people I work with at the hospital. I've been a switchboard operator for 24 years there now. Take care, Kim
  4. cubcake
    02-19-2013 02:18 PM - permalink
    cubcake
    Hi Mair....thinking of you today and sending some extra love and strength from this side of the pond. XO
  5. Barbie
    02-18-2013 04:26 PM - permalink
    Barbie
    Hi Mair, I was just checking in to say hi and that I am thinking of you. Hope you are doing as well as you can. I know this is such a tough t ime for you. Please stay in touch--I understand it must be hard to come on this forum now--If you want I will pm my email to you so we can stay in touch.

    take care~ barbie
  6. cubcake
    02-13-2013 12:49 PM - permalink
    cubcake
    12 weeks...Wow. To me, it seems like yesterday, but years ago, at the same time. I'm so very sorry. About the job, you're going to be great. Have you ever held a job before? I was a stay at home Mom for 20 years before I ever entered the workforce. Working outside the home is so much easier than inside, and you mostly use the same skills. Outside employment is full of a bunch of cranky babies and you just do a lot of consoling, fetching and pleasing. It doesn't even matter in what area you choose to work. I'm a Certified Public Accountant for a large Oil Producer, but I could just as well be in the medical field or retail. My point is, you've already done life's hardest work, and I'm not even including your wonderful care of Clive. You already have what it takes. Now you just have to decide where your interests lie and go show them who you are and what you're made of.

    I know you can do this. I'll be praying for your strength and confidence! :)

    Have a lovely day. XO
  7. skipper66
    02-11-2013 03:15 PM - permalink
    skipper66
    Hi Mair,
    Thinking of you and hoping your doing okay. Sending you a hug, Kim
  8. cubcake
    02-05-2013 05:25 PM - permalink
    cubcake
    Hi Mair. I've been thinking about you today and wondering how your boys are doing. And you....how are you holding up? The holidays are over and all the fanfare. Are you finding a new normal?

    We've taken a definite dive. Fred became bedridden on Friday, and he slept a lot yesterday and has only waken to eat today. The FTD makes sure he never misses a meal. We went to the ALS clinic last week, while he was still up and around and the doctor told me that "There have been no changes" and he's "sorry that this isn't going faster for me." What?!? He probably attributes all of the changes to FTD as opposed to ALS, but.....What?!?

    I'm scared and lonely and sad. And I know you know.

    But I'm having happy thoughts for you, and am sending my best wishes your way.

    XO Shelly
  9. skipper66
    01-27-2013 05:11 PM - permalink
    skipper66
    Hi Mair,
    How are you doing? I am currently staying at my dad's home due to some marital issues. I am hoping to return home soon. My dad is doing so-so. You never know for sure with this disease. We lucked out today and just got rain. We were originally supposed to get freezing rain but it past us up. I'm sure though its slick in spots so I'm not going out much in it. Sending you a hug, Kim
  10. cubcake
    01-20-2013 07:05 PM - permalink
    cubcake
    Hi Mair. Thinking of you today, and hoping you had a nice weekend. Hoping your boys are feeling well and you are getting to the bottom of their troubles. I wish you peace and comfort. Hugs.

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  • About poppy62
    City
    caerphilly
    State or Province
    mid glamorgan
    Country
    uk
    How has ALS/MND impacted you?
    My Hubby left the room on 18 Nov 2012
    When were you diagnosed?
    05/2012
    Biography
    newly wed..last october (2011), second time round, four kids, three grandkids
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    retired from caring for elderly with dementia,
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    time with my family, reading, film on tv,
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Posted 01-27-2013 at 04:26 PM by poppy62 Comments 1
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I came across a 3 minute clip on my old phone...
Hubby being sexy, trying to give me the come on, I'm giggling, and his voice is on there too..
oh joy, happy tears, sad tears, flowed and still flowing...but I am so chuffed...it's precious..
He is immortal...I love him so..and I miss him...

Posted 01-08-2013 at 04:55 PM by poppy62 Comments 1
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Today I have been sorting out some of Clive's clothes..every shirt and t-shirt has a memory attached to it..I can picture him wearing these still..I remember where we bought them, how he paraded them for me when we got home..
I am keeping two all-time favourites..I found his deodorant too..I had to squirt it...Oh my lord..it was him..
Funny how smells work on your mind, it smelled so good..like he was here..only he wasn't, he was, but just in my memory..in my heart..
I have...

Posted 01-05-2013 at 08:05 PM by poppy62 Comments 1
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In approximately four hours it will be seven weeks since Clive passed on...
Days have dragged and dragged and dragged some more..night-time has been the worst time.
Yet look how quickly it is seven weeks already, almost two months..
Why does it hurt more now than it did then?
Does grief come to a peak and then subside?
Just how big will this peak get?
This is different to when my parents died, and to when my brother died..I feel like part of me has died..I...

Posted 01-02-2013 at 09:11 PM by poppy62 Comments 0
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The 'new year' is underway...
What's so new about it? It just feels like a continuation of the old year right now..and some before that even..
I am alone.
What to do?
Where to go?
Who will I become?
When will I stop bursting into tears?
I will never stop missing him..
I have just been reading my whole blog...
I look at his photos, at the changes in him, and it is only now I am really seeing what happened to him...if that makes sense?...

Posted 12-29-2012 at 11:42 AM by poppy62 Comments 1
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Christmas Past...Clive and me
Christmas Present...me
Christmas Foreseeable Future...me

My outer shell is hardening up a little but inside remains a pile of mush...stirred by memories, little snippets, sudden thoughts, a smell, a photo, a piece of clothing, his pillow, certain songs...
and I am glad of these things...
I am so lonely for him...

Now what...
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I know Babe. I love...
Posted 01-28-2013 at 09:28 AM by Ms. Pie Ms. Pie is offline
My husband died 4 months...
Posted 01-21-2013 at 11:10 AM by muptigrove muptigrove is offline
Hi Poppy,
I just...
Posted 01-21-2013 at 10:23 AM by mj95 mj95 is offline
I miss him so much.....
Posted 01-02-2013 at 09:15 AM by poppy62 poppy62 is offline
What a great love story....
Posted 01-02-2013 at 01:07 AM by mj95 mj95 is offline

    
   
   
   
   
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