I understand where your coming from on that! It seems that we have to make adjustments all the time. I am constantly having to decide what will be worth doing and spending my energy on and what would be best to leave for others to do because I actually don't have the hand strength anymore. Like tonight my daughter was helping me clean up 2 days worth of kitchen mess. Towards the end she was wiping counters and I desired to take the center piece under the burners out to wash in the sink because no one had done it since the last time I did months ago. The last time I did it, my hands could not scrub hard enough, so this time, I taught my 14 year old how to do it and she did great! So there is one more thing to cross off my don't do list anymore. I can still wipe a counter top down as long as there is nothing sticky on it!
Hang in there BB. We are all in this together.