Carendam & Fedup
Welcome. Since you each indicate you are in the process of diagnosis, I sincerely hope your presence here is premature. Please keep in mind that there are many ailments which are quite manageable and less dire than ALS and similar. If it turns out that your suspicions are correct, I echo Vivki's remarks. One day at the time. Love deeper & hug longer, forgive and seek forgiveness. Once the reality has settled in, get reliable information on all aspects including your future medical requirements, finances, housing etc. (this site is a great place!)
When I joined this forum, I was immediately assured by members that "there is life after diagnosis". At the time, I could not even fathom what that life would look like. Well, I'm here to say- it looks the same as before- only more vibrant, more urgent and more honest. I suppose, it's what it should have looked like all along.
Best wishes to each of you.