yes gracie,unfortunatley it all sounds familiar.
had bladder urgencey for oh! its been some years maybe 7 or 8,it had got worse the past few years resulting in incontinance sometimes.
the bladder urgencey is caused by spasms in the bladder,you can get medication for this but not sure if it works ok.
my feet and ankles swell when sitting too long and in very warm/hot weather also
have you seen his gp or neuro recently and mentioned all your concerns?
you can talk to the doctors on your own so as not to upset your husband.
i ofton think how hard this disease must be for the older ones who get it,it must take more out of the body.
please get in to see his gp or neuro if possible and keep us updated.
thinking of you both,caroline