GinaB
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Hi,
My Dad was diagnosed with having MND on Tuesday of this week. As i am sure all of you are aware this is the most devestating news to be told as a family. No less because his own brother died over 14 years ago from the same disease, and my father cared for him throughout.
Given that this is the case, we can not hide behind the ignorance of what will gradually happen to him. we have all witnessed the demise of what was a healthy robust and active man (my uncle) until he was struck with MND, and this reality is one of the hardest things to deal with. Not only are we aware of how the story ends, but my father has witnessed this more closely than any of us.
In addition to the fact that it is rare for two people in the same family to have MND, my father has began with the bulbar onset, something of which apparantly only 25% of sufferers begin with. He has been finding it difficult to speak for several months now and this was followed by the difficulty in swallowing. We all thought it may have been related to some sort of stroke.
He is 59 and being Irish has never been one to make a fuss of anything, (he worked as a builder right up until the day he was admitted for tests). His speech is such a big part of who he is, i know this is the case with everyone, but he has always loved, singing, joking and his personality is so lively...So the prospect of him losing this ability altogether is just more than we can all bare for him.
His speech at the minute is a little mumbled , but i and others can still understand the majority of what he is saying. I know everyone is different but i wondered if anyone on here has also started with the bulbar symptoms? how quickly did they progress? is there anyone who began with this and can now no longer speak? anyone who started with bulbar and then had difficulty with legs and arms....how long did this take...?
I have searched and searched the internet for the answers to these questions, but really only those who are experiencing such instances can give me any sort of insight.
I hope someone can help.
Many thanks
Gina
My Dad was diagnosed with having MND on Tuesday of this week. As i am sure all of you are aware this is the most devestating news to be told as a family. No less because his own brother died over 14 years ago from the same disease, and my father cared for him throughout.
Given that this is the case, we can not hide behind the ignorance of what will gradually happen to him. we have all witnessed the demise of what was a healthy robust and active man (my uncle) until he was struck with MND, and this reality is one of the hardest things to deal with. Not only are we aware of how the story ends, but my father has witnessed this more closely than any of us.
In addition to the fact that it is rare for two people in the same family to have MND, my father has began with the bulbar onset, something of which apparantly only 25% of sufferers begin with. He has been finding it difficult to speak for several months now and this was followed by the difficulty in swallowing. We all thought it may have been related to some sort of stroke.
He is 59 and being Irish has never been one to make a fuss of anything, (he worked as a builder right up until the day he was admitted for tests). His speech is such a big part of who he is, i know this is the case with everyone, but he has always loved, singing, joking and his personality is so lively...So the prospect of him losing this ability altogether is just more than we can all bare for him.
His speech at the minute is a little mumbled , but i and others can still understand the majority of what he is saying. I know everyone is different but i wondered if anyone on here has also started with the bulbar symptoms? how quickly did they progress? is there anyone who began with this and can now no longer speak? anyone who started with bulbar and then had difficulty with legs and arms....how long did this take...?
I have searched and searched the internet for the answers to these questions, but really only those who are experiencing such instances can give me any sort of insight.
I hope someone can help.
Many thanks
Gina