bythesea ... You probably haven't gotten responses because you launched a political broadside, which isn't done on this forum.
But I'll address the other issues: why isn't your supplemental insurer paying these bills?
One thing I have discovered is that insurance companies negotiate with hospitals, doctors, etc. They squeeze the hell out of them.
I got an itemized bill for $3,200 for an outpatient procedure in '07, probably sent to me by mistake. The "insurance adjustment" deducted $1,280. The "contractual write off" (?!?) deducted another $1,445.85. I paid a co-pay of $50. The grand total of the $3,200 of the bill paid by insurance? $424.15. The bill was marked paid in full.
A few years ago, my husband's HMO went bankrupt a couple of days after he had an MRI. We got a bill for something like $5,000 for the procedure. Like a fool, I dipped into savings and paid it. Now I would start a correspondence along the lines of, "I'll pay you the same as Blue Cross/Aetna/Cigna, etc. pay you and not a penny more."
I saved that 2007 bill as a horrible example of how the uninsured get whacked in this country. Don't accept these bills at face value. First find out why your "supplemental" isn't supplementing, and then find out how much your medical providers are willing to discount. Pull out all the stops. I've become shameless at playing the "
ALS" card.
And I'm glad your neuro thinks
ALS is not likely. (And try to keep politics out of future posts. I've sinned in that direction, so I'm not throwing stones, but you'll get more feedback with less controversial posts.)