Ditto what Lora said! If you qualify for any help whatsoever, get it! You and your family deserve it!
There are many pALS and their families that make too much to qualify for any programs, but struggle to make ends meet due to the cost of care and the cost of just existing on reduced income.
Yes, there are people that scam the system, but I don't think we can put ourselves in that category...
Shelley, can you get with your social worker at the
ALS Clinic to help you weed through the paperwork for SS? They should be able to help you and you wouldn't have to hire an attorney. It seems I remember in all my research that there are disability organizations that will help the disabled with things like this for free. If I have time, I will try to find it.
Good luck to you and your family during this process.