hisfirstdaughter
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- Apr 21, 2009
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So I had to work all day...when I finally got a chance to look at my cell phone I saw that my dad called and he left me a message. He needed help filling out a return slip for some no-zipper pants he just purchased online...he can no longer write with any accute accuracy. So after work I rushed over there to help him out. Well my step-mother and the baby are out of town visiting Gramma so my dad's been alone for a few days. I came over the first night to eat with him and watch movies...but today just as I was walking in the front door he was making himself a tuna sandwich. Struggling...but doing it. He decided he wanted to heat it up (sort of like a tuna-melt), so he put it in the microwave...well as he was trying to take it out of the microwave half of it fell on the ground because it was hot and he couldn't hold it or react fact enough. He didn't even ask me once for help..should I offer it always? I want to give him space to be independent while he still can, he's got so much pride. I don't want to step on it and make him feel incapable...but I also hate to see his struggle and disappointment and frustration.
He kicked the microwave door shut and spilled all kinds of stuff on the ground. I just felt helpless as I'm sure he did. I had to leave the room for a minute and wipe away my tears. Its just SO DAMN HARD! I don't like that he's alone, that she left for 4 days. I know he's okay, that he can handle it at this point, but I still know that he's had that much less distraction from everything so he's been thinking a lot. Alone. I'm busy and can't be there all the time but I wish I could!
Anyway just wanted to share...
He kicked the microwave door shut and spilled all kinds of stuff on the ground. I just felt helpless as I'm sure he did. I had to leave the room for a minute and wipe away my tears. Its just SO DAMN HARD! I don't like that he's alone, that she left for 4 days. I know he's okay, that he can handle it at this point, but I still know that he's had that much less distraction from everything so he's been thinking a lot. Alone. I'm busy and can't be there all the time but I wish I could!
Anyway just wanted to share...