KrisTie H.
Member
- Joined
- Jan 8, 2016
- Messages
- 15
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 01/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- Utah
- City
- Taylorsville
Okay so my husband has not had a definite diagnosis yet, that being said, I think it's obvious to me and our family doctor and the Neurologist know what we are looking at.
I don't think I can fool myself any longer I've got to start preparing now.
Finally got him to start using a cane. The problem is that his work does not know anything about this yet. We are afraid that they will let him go and that's the only insurance we have. So, he isn't using his cane at work. He is still driving and I think he should probably not be, he was a horrible driver before so now I'm not sure if it's him or the ALS.
Finally got an appointment with the University of Utah ALS clinic. We will we get a definite answer then or is it more of "it could be"?
I have never ever been in any situation like this and I'm scared outta my mind. I can't get him to talk about end of life treatment or his wish's in any way. He won't do a living will. We have our own business (small janitorial co) and we sub contract for another company and she has already said once he is diagnosed she wont allow him to be on the job sight. That's what we pay the rent with and utilities.
I'm just so desperate to talk to someone that is just so uncomfortable that all they wanna do is change the subject.
I don't think I can fool myself any longer I've got to start preparing now.
Finally got him to start using a cane. The problem is that his work does not know anything about this yet. We are afraid that they will let him go and that's the only insurance we have. So, he isn't using his cane at work. He is still driving and I think he should probably not be, he was a horrible driver before so now I'm not sure if it's him or the ALS.
Finally got an appointment with the University of Utah ALS clinic. We will we get a definite answer then or is it more of "it could be"?
I have never ever been in any situation like this and I'm scared outta my mind. I can't get him to talk about end of life treatment or his wish's in any way. He won't do a living will. We have our own business (small janitorial co) and we sub contract for another company and she has already said once he is diagnosed she wont allow him to be on the job sight. That's what we pay the rent with and utilities.
I'm just so desperate to talk to someone that is just so uncomfortable that all they wanna do is change the subject.