starente15
Senior member
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2014
- Messages
- 809
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 10/2017
- Country
- US
- State
- NJ
- City
- Northern
Hi everyone. We just keep having one issue after another and my aunt and I are leaving next Friday. First we found out that no local facility will accept a trilogy. We hired in home care 24/7 care last week but have already had several people call in sick at the last minute and last night my mother said she saw the aide sleeping three different times.
On the topic of my mother, she is acting very confused and I'm not 100% she saw what she said she did. She says things and if I ask a question she'll say she didn't say it. Yesterday she told me than the owner of the agency who stopped by said "everyone dies" which she felt was insensitive. What I heard from the conversation was "everyone has their struggles" and she shared that her husband has cancer. I see the writing on the wall and it isn't good.
Just wondered if anyone what types of places might take a trilogy and do tube feelings. We're running out of time and I foresee disaster in the near future. . TIA.
On the topic of my mother, she is acting very confused and I'm not 100% she saw what she said she did. She says things and if I ask a question she'll say she didn't say it. Yesterday she told me than the owner of the agency who stopped by said "everyone dies" which she felt was insensitive. What I heard from the conversation was "everyone has their struggles" and she shared that her husband has cancer. I see the writing on the wall and it isn't good.
Just wondered if anyone what types of places might take a trilogy and do tube feelings. We're running out of time and I foresee disaster in the near future. . TIA.