berniec74
Member
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2012
- Messages
- 25
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 12/2012
- Country
- US
- State
- MO
- City
- St. Louis
Does anyone else who has now lost the ability to use the bathroom alone have any words of wisdom? I live with my brother and sister-in-law and have a part-time caregiver but this issue is literally making me crazy.
I worry constantly about when I have to go and who is around...people try to tell me to be on a schedule...really? I'm so anxious I'm not drinking enough fluids. I am advised not to even consider a cathedar as it opens up lots of room for constant infection.
My ALS as affected my legs, left arm and starting on my right arm. I am not using a Hoyer I actually transfer from my power chair to my shower chair and then I am pushed over the toilet. With my arm strength going this won't last too much sooner.
So frustrated. I am supposed to go to a hotel next weekend in an accessible room but the girls with me really aren't skilled in transfers. I do have a female urinal...tricky but it has worked when I tried it previously.
How does one start to relax? I feel silly but it's a major obstacle for me.
I worry constantly about when I have to go and who is around...people try to tell me to be on a schedule...really? I'm so anxious I'm not drinking enough fluids. I am advised not to even consider a cathedar as it opens up lots of room for constant infection.
My ALS as affected my legs, left arm and starting on my right arm. I am not using a Hoyer I actually transfer from my power chair to my shower chair and then I am pushed over the toilet. With my arm strength going this won't last too much sooner.
So frustrated. I am supposed to go to a hotel next weekend in an accessible room but the girls with me really aren't skilled in transfers. I do have a female urinal...tricky but it has worked when I tried it previously.
How does one start to relax? I feel silly but it's a major obstacle for me.