this was such a difficult thread to read with my eyes all sweaty. I never cry, hardly ever. it does me no good and my tears surely don't help him any. Suppose there will be a flood when he leaves me, best get started on my Ark
eritika, don't waste time and energy on tears, there is to much to do! we are only promised today and ALS only drives that point home to front and center! I have made my house beautiful, we don't go much so where we are has to be enjoyable, specially the areas he lives in. his windows look out over gardens and flowers...and a bee hive! breakfast has honey from our bees he watched me harvest and tend to, and get chased and stung by! rofl! and there are two big aquariums he can watch, yup they are work, but work I get to tend to in his company, and he watched as I designed and scaped and planted and changed and added fish ... and more fish, and surprised him with things. why? why not? got to keep living and as of today we are still here. I would be bored if I couldn't get out and about and they are beautiful visuals. Every thing is an event! Meals are big deals, weekly shows are big deals! ugh we have to wait till feb to see were everyone from the walking dead ended up! but Hell on wheel and Vikings start soon haha! We have 2 dogs and a cat, and lots of hair, but I clean floors daily, they are worth it, the papillion spends the day in his lap, the big dog runs with me and the cat LOVES him. Family is in and out as are friends, the door is open because company is a big deal too. oh, almost forgot the birds! the cat caught a zebra finch, someone's lost pet. He resurched and decided it need a friend...ended up with eggs , babies, and craigs list! lol! I almost got rid of the parent pair as well but come home from work one day an he tells me, " I had to throw things at the cat several times to keep him off the bird cage today, but then the cat decided to just sit and rest his chin on the arm of the sofa real close and stare...you shoulda seen it, it was so cute!" So yup, we'll be keeping the dam birds too, why not it's just a bird
Life needs living, make the most of it all, every small silly thing. there will be plenty of time for tears later..... (or in the shower every now and again)