bowser, thank you for your clear description of your experience with the PEG.
I so agree, get it before you need it if you are going to use it. My PALS has agreed to have it, but won't agree to have it put in (confusing huh?). He says he will 'know' when he needs it, but the fact is his breathing may disqualify him from getting it if he leaves it til he needs it just for swallowing.
We are attending a PEG clinic at our hospital soon so we will see how he feels after that.
With the smiley with sunglasses - that one is create by typing an 8 immediately followed by a closing bracket ) that's why it was messing with ya, so as was suggested you can choose to turn the smileys off.
CuriousGirl - if no support at all is taken, then it is my understanding that the PALS will have more and more problems eating and will therefore either 1) aspirate and develop pneumonia which could end up fatal or 2) slowly begin to starve and dehydrate due to not being able to take enough by mouth. That's for the bulbar problems, the other life threatening problem is the muscles for breathing. If no support is used then usually in fact it is more a matter of build up of CO2 that causes increased drowsiness until breathing ceases. But if it is oxygen deprivation this tends to be frightening and may require morphine to assist the person to the end.
Others can probably give better descriptions than I can as my PALS is still eating, and we have just purchased a food processor to help modify his foods for him a little.