justforship
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- Feb 17, 2012
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- Friend was DX
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- CA
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- quebec
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- montreal
Hi everyone, my boyfriend's father was diagnosed with ALS about 2 years ago. The past few months have been extremely difficult. When he was first diagnosed, they suspected a slow process. The disease has recently spread and is getting progressively worse. Last week, his father stopped breathing in his sleep, and woke up because of his breathing machine. Just a few days later, my boyfriend was scheduled to visit his parents who have retired and are vacationing in Florida. Upon his return, his emotions were all over the place. He had night terrors his first night back, and I knew something was wrong when he woke up, and he began to cry when I questioned what was wrong.
I want to be able to help him, although I can't imagine having to watch his hero slowly deteriorate. He has two older siblings who have since moved to other parts of the country and do not see him very much.
Does anyone have anything suggestions on how to help? Is it horrible to suggest that he see a counsellor or psychologist or to join a support group?
I want to be able to help him, although I can't imagine having to watch his hero slowly deteriorate. He has two older siblings who have since moved to other parts of the country and do not see him very much.
Does anyone have anything suggestions on how to help? Is it horrible to suggest that he see a counsellor or psychologist or to join a support group?