Kevalyn
Member
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2011
- Messages
- 29
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 04/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- LA
- City
- New Orleans
I basically had an aunt tell me that I need to put everything else on the back burner to spend as much time with my mom, including planning & organizing the Christmas pageant for the kids at church. While I agree we don't know how much time we have left with her, I also feel that if I never spent another moment with my mom, it wouldn't change our relationship because I've always been there. I didn't just wait until she was sick to care for her & to give her all my love & attention (like some people including the aunt who is telling me this). This is a very difficult time for our family, especially during the holidays and I need the distraction. I feel that I can't just stop my life because if my mom dies today or tomorrow, I still have to be able to go on and make it through this without her. Am I being selfish?