jwife
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jul 10, 2010
- Messages
- 163
- Diagnosis
- 05/2009
- Country
- US
- State
- Alabama
- City
- Lincoln
It has been two months since my husband lost his battle with ALS. I still have that lingering question of what happened to end his life so quickly. Yes, he had been diagnosed for a little over 2 years and I know he was ill longer than that, but he never reached the stages that so many ALS patients do. He still had his voice (it was getting much weaker) and he was only using his bi-pap part of the day and not at all during the night. He still had some voluntary movement in his arms and legs. He started having some difficulty with his breathing when he went to bed on Tues night. He was checked by the hospice nurse on Wed. Friday morning I called for the nurse to return and she said he was only breathing using the upper part of his lungs and he was started on a very minimum dose of morphine to ease the build up of carbon monoxide. Saturday he knew everyone who came to visit. His breathing just became slower and he died on Sunday morning at 9:15. Not having to suffer was such a blessing for him, but I feel that I didn't get a chance to really say goodbye or to do all the things that I was expecting or planned. Can anyone give me any insight into what might have caused him to slip away so quickly? Maybe you have a better understanding of this than I do.
This forum is such a wealth of information. My heart goes out to each of you and your families. No one should have to know this monster of a disease.
Janis
This forum is such a wealth of information. My heart goes out to each of you and your families. No one should have to know this monster of a disease.
Janis