pamdemonium
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- Jul 23, 2010
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Hello-
My father-in-Law received his Eyemax a few weeks ago. It is all set up and we have worked with him to make sure that it is properly configured for him. After practicing for a while, he got tired so we took a break. Several times over the course of that weekend, I asked him if he wanted to try again and he shook his head no. I finally asked him if he hated the eyemax and he shook his head yes. He has not wanted to work with it since.
His refusal to use it hurts my mother-in-laws feelings because she feels that he no longer wants to make the effort to talk to her. She is also his primary care giver and it makes her life much harder because she has ask him many, many yes/no questions to find out what he wants or needs.
I miss talking with him. It feels like we have lost him already.
I am trying to understand why he would not want to use this tool. It concerns me that is this could be a bad sign about his state of mind.
Can any of you share any insight?
Thanks,
Pam
My father-in-Law received his Eyemax a few weeks ago. It is all set up and we have worked with him to make sure that it is properly configured for him. After practicing for a while, he got tired so we took a break. Several times over the course of that weekend, I asked him if he wanted to try again and he shook his head no. I finally asked him if he hated the eyemax and he shook his head yes. He has not wanted to work with it since.
His refusal to use it hurts my mother-in-laws feelings because she feels that he no longer wants to make the effort to talk to her. She is also his primary care giver and it makes her life much harder because she has ask him many, many yes/no questions to find out what he wants or needs.
I miss talking with him. It feels like we have lost him already.
I am trying to understand why he would not want to use this tool. It concerns me that is this could be a bad sign about his state of mind.
Can any of you share any insight?
Thanks,
Pam