Atsugi
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- Joined
- Jan 11, 2011
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- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 12/2010
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- US
- State
- FL
- City
- Orlando
Lately I've been wiping my PALS behind on the toilet. Soon I know I'll be brushing her teeth and feeding her. I wonder how we're going to care for her when her arms and neck become totally limp.
We want to stay at home-no hospital, no vent, no tubes. What shall I plan for?
Background: My wife noticed a foot-drop in November, got diagnosed in December, needed a cane in January, a walker in February, and became permanently wheelchair-bound in March.
In April, she found that her abdominal muscles couldn't sit her up when her saliva overwhelmed her breathing. In May, her right arm became useless. I don't think the left arm will feed her past June.
Again, my question: What are the things I need to plan for? When your PALS is nearly locked-in, what is life like for the caregiver? Can this be done at home?
We want to stay at home-no hospital, no vent, no tubes. What shall I plan for?
Background: My wife noticed a foot-drop in November, got diagnosed in December, needed a cane in January, a walker in February, and became permanently wheelchair-bound in March.
In April, she found that her abdominal muscles couldn't sit her up when her saliva overwhelmed her breathing. In May, her right arm became useless. I don't think the left arm will feed her past June.
Again, my question: What are the things I need to plan for? When your PALS is nearly locked-in, what is life like for the caregiver? Can this be done at home?