pamdemonium
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Good Morning!
I am just back from a visit with my PALS (my father-in-law). He is almost completely locked in now but his breathing has yet to be measureably impacted.
I was talking with my mother-in-law and she said that he has had a couple of panic attacks where he believes that he cannot breathe. She has comforted him and talked him through these attacks but she is concerned that they are going to become more frequent and unmanageable as the disease progresses and he really does start to have breathing issues.
Up until now he has absolutely not wanted to consider being ventilated. Being that he is completely locked in, I believe that this is still his wish as he would not want to continue on in this state. But I believe the thought of what is to come without ventilation is understandably terrifying to him.
None of us can bear the thought of watching him panic and struggle to breathe for the rest of his days.
How should they handle this? Is there any way to ease his anguish? Is this a sign that they should bring hospice?
I hate this disease.
Thanks in advance for any insight.
Pam
I am just back from a visit with my PALS (my father-in-law). He is almost completely locked in now but his breathing has yet to be measureably impacted.
I was talking with my mother-in-law and she said that he has had a couple of panic attacks where he believes that he cannot breathe. She has comforted him and talked him through these attacks but she is concerned that they are going to become more frequent and unmanageable as the disease progresses and he really does start to have breathing issues.
Up until now he has absolutely not wanted to consider being ventilated. Being that he is completely locked in, I believe that this is still his wish as he would not want to continue on in this state. But I believe the thought of what is to come without ventilation is understandably terrifying to him.
None of us can bear the thought of watching him panic and struggle to breathe for the rest of his days.
How should they handle this? Is there any way to ease his anguish? Is this a sign that they should bring hospice?
I hate this disease.
Thanks in advance for any insight.
Pam