taminator
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- Mar 14, 2010
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- 03/2010
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- Texas
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- Bryan
My mom was moved to an in-patient hospice yesterday. She had developed pneumonia and IV antibiotic treatments weren't working; she just continued to get worse. Over the past few weeks she got to where she could not even use her Dynavox to communicate. So we haven't been able to communicate with her at all during this latest round of medical problems. Anyhow, things just went from bad to worse and here we are at the end.
She's on massive amounts of morphine and Ativan but she kind of wakes up about once an hour and starts crying. Also, whenever anyone talks to her she starts crying. Do you think she recognizes us? I can't help but wonder if she understands what all is going on. Surely she has to know how severely sick she's been the past few weeks. Every time the nurses give her the morphine she starts crying. She was also doing this while in the hospital being treated for the pneumonia. She would not want any pain medicine but if she went without it she'd just moan very loudly for hours on end. So we've gone back and forth about is she really in pain (which she has been from day 1 due to some other medical issues) and does she need all this morphine?
My husband lost his father years ago and said when it got to the end and he was on so much morphine he did the same thing. I guess I'm just worried she thinks we've given up on her. I've worked in healthcare and I know medically all the signs are there and what is going on. And I'm questioning if we've made the right decision leaving the hospital and going to hospice.
Thank you in advance for any guidance.
Tammy
She's on massive amounts of morphine and Ativan but she kind of wakes up about once an hour and starts crying. Also, whenever anyone talks to her she starts crying. Do you think she recognizes us? I can't help but wonder if she understands what all is going on. Surely she has to know how severely sick she's been the past few weeks. Every time the nurses give her the morphine she starts crying. She was also doing this while in the hospital being treated for the pneumonia. She would not want any pain medicine but if she went without it she'd just moan very loudly for hours on end. So we've gone back and forth about is she really in pain (which she has been from day 1 due to some other medical issues) and does she need all this morphine?
My husband lost his father years ago and said when it got to the end and he was on so much morphine he did the same thing. I guess I'm just worried she thinks we've given up on her. I've worked in healthcare and I know medically all the signs are there and what is going on. And I'm questioning if we've made the right decision leaving the hospital and going to hospice.
Thank you in advance for any guidance.
Tammy