hi, i'll be honest i was just a little desperate for the chat! didn't realise until just now you are an insomniac american! or are you from canada? been listening to some music, prob was delving the depths earlier (never a good thing) but sometimes things change and shock you. where are you? I am in brighton uk. by the sea! just had a shock earlier when dad couldn't talk. know it is part and parcel but sometimes, still, catches me unawares. x