luvnmm
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 15, 2010
- Messages
- 300
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 09/2009
- Country
- US
- State
- VA
- City
- Henrico
My mom was diagnosed with limb onset ALS 2009. She has had a really great attitude about the whole thing. She tells me she not afraid, and that she's not angry. That if it wasn't ALS, it would probably be something else. She's one of the bravest women I know. She lives about 2 hours from me, and I do not currently have a car so it's hard for me to get to see her. She was great when it came to the cane. She had a friend that gave her a flower to put on her cane that has a smiley face. She named her Daisy. Then she started falling with the cane so the doctor at Duke recommended she use a walker now and not use the cane anymore. My mom had a really hard time with that and she cried for a while. But she has now named her walker Gertrude and plans to decorate it for Christmas. I know she's brave and not scared...but I am scared, out of my mind. She's my best friend and my mentor and I don't know how I'm going to live without her. Does anyone know what I can do to get over this so that I can be in the right state of mind to help her?