Lupe hun, we talked about this. You told me that your neighbor has all the power of attorney etc? Can she help you if your jerk of an x-husband stops paying? If you are stressing over this, perhaps there is a way to get your support taken out of his paychecks, or bank accounts once a month like they do with child support. That is horrible what he did to your son! I know what that is like as a mom who has an evil x-husband who was abusive to my daughter on visitations. Its so frustrating, and its hard because you want to fix how your son feels about it too. I am so sorry. We never talked about food assistance...do you get it? It can be a real life saver! No shame in that at all my dear. You would be surprised at what you would qualify for based on the fact that you and your son live together and he is going to school. Every little bit helps. I know you try and keep as much responsibility off your son as possible, so again, I would go to your neighbor and fill her in with what is going on. It may not require an attorney to file such papers to get his wages garnished. There is usually county clerk at the court house that can tell you what papers to fill out. Lots of attorneys give free consults too. I looked at the websites that CJ listed above, they are EXCELLENT! On the second link called DADS after you get into that link, click on Help for Texans and go down the page where it talks about helping the disabled. Both sites are excellent places to start. Your neighbor can talk for you on the phone. Also there are links to email the local agency that may be able to help you with legal advice on getting your spousal support set up in a way where you wouldnt have to worry. I hate that you have to worry about any of this Lupe! If there is ANY phone calls or more research I can do for you, just email me at my email address you have, and I will be happy to do what ever you need! You are not alone, we are all here for you hun!
Hugs my friend,
Kari