MovingClouds
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Hello, there. I know my screenames pretty weird. I didn't want my family knowing I am posting on threads. I know my mom'd be upset, cause she doesn't want me to know some things, I do...
My dad has ALS. I found out over winter break, and things have just been.....so stressful. I know, i'm not the only one. And I don't have this disease. But its my dad. I'm sorry for ranting. I'm glad this forum is here. It makes me feel unalone. I hope I can help you guys, as much as you'll probably be helping me...
Um- okayy......i'm going to just rant somethings out. Advice to remaining stress-free, would be nice- if not, its okay though lol, sorry for ranting.
1- My sister is in college, and shes probably taking this really bad. If you don't do one thing around the house before she comes home to visit, she gets really, really mad saying that dad is sick, and that he can't do this, and we should be thankful he even cleans (Which I am) which just adds on to the stress.
Most of the time, I try to pretend my Dad doesn't have it. I'll just go on with the day normally, and whatnot. But- when my Mom gets really stressed she'll yell something like to me and my younger brother-
"Your DAD is sick! With a disease! You should be treating him better, you should not be fighting when your dad is so sick!" And its like-...mom, I know he's sick. I'm trying to act normal around him, but you're making it so, so hard to do that, AND I'M SO SICK OF IT!
i could go on for hours just mentioning how sickening this disease, family, and everything is. But I think you guys already know this.
My dads always been so strong, and seeing him need to ask people for help, and seeing my mom who NEVER cries (always yells, ha ^^: ) cry-
it just kills me.
my mom tells me not to mind what my dad says because he cant control it, my dad tells me not to mind what my mom says because she gets angry alot, and its just-
They're both my parents! How can I not mind what they both say?! My mom is usually nice and stuff in the morning
but in nighttime shes really stressed out, doesn't want to talk to anyone, cries, goes to her room, everything.
I feel like I can't even express how sad I am. Because I don't want to make my mom sad, and give her more reasons to cry. And I want to be strong for my brother.
And its just- I haven't really gone all out and ranted to someone. I've only told two of my friends, and I just told them about the disease generally. I can't talk about it, when I do I just get depressed, and I hate that feeling. I hate thinking my dad, who's always been strong, is going to not be there someday. I know we all pass on at some point-
But I wish my dad wouldn't have to pass so soon. I wish the doctor would call us up right now, and tell us my dad doesn't have this disease. I wish it was something curable. I always think they'll come up with a cure for it before something happens.
blah.
Sorry for the rant. I'm just your over-emotional teenager.
Thanks for listening anyway : /
Any tips on how to help my family be not so stressed?
My dad has ALS. I found out over winter break, and things have just been.....so stressful. I know, i'm not the only one. And I don't have this disease. But its my dad. I'm sorry for ranting. I'm glad this forum is here. It makes me feel unalone. I hope I can help you guys, as much as you'll probably be helping me...
Um- okayy......i'm going to just rant somethings out. Advice to remaining stress-free, would be nice- if not, its okay though lol, sorry for ranting.
1- My sister is in college, and shes probably taking this really bad. If you don't do one thing around the house before she comes home to visit, she gets really, really mad saying that dad is sick, and that he can't do this, and we should be thankful he even cleans (Which I am) which just adds on to the stress.
Most of the time, I try to pretend my Dad doesn't have it. I'll just go on with the day normally, and whatnot. But- when my Mom gets really stressed she'll yell something like to me and my younger brother-
"Your DAD is sick! With a disease! You should be treating him better, you should not be fighting when your dad is so sick!" And its like-...mom, I know he's sick. I'm trying to act normal around him, but you're making it so, so hard to do that, AND I'M SO SICK OF IT!
i could go on for hours just mentioning how sickening this disease, family, and everything is. But I think you guys already know this.
My dads always been so strong, and seeing him need to ask people for help, and seeing my mom who NEVER cries (always yells, ha ^^: ) cry-
it just kills me.
my mom tells me not to mind what my dad says because he cant control it, my dad tells me not to mind what my mom says because she gets angry alot, and its just-
They're both my parents! How can I not mind what they both say?! My mom is usually nice and stuff in the morning
but in nighttime shes really stressed out, doesn't want to talk to anyone, cries, goes to her room, everything.
I feel like I can't even express how sad I am. Because I don't want to make my mom sad, and give her more reasons to cry. And I want to be strong for my brother.
And its just- I haven't really gone all out and ranted to someone. I've only told two of my friends, and I just told them about the disease generally. I can't talk about it, when I do I just get depressed, and I hate that feeling. I hate thinking my dad, who's always been strong, is going to not be there someday. I know we all pass on at some point-
But I wish my dad wouldn't have to pass so soon. I wish the doctor would call us up right now, and tell us my dad doesn't have this disease. I wish it was something curable. I always think they'll come up with a cure for it before something happens.
blah.
Sorry for the rant. I'm just your over-emotional teenager.
Thanks for listening anyway : /
Any tips on how to help my family be not so stressed?