georgianna
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- Apr 20, 2009
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- Reason
- Loved one DX
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- US
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- Arizona
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- rural
This is the first time I have posted. I have been reading for a couple of months and I think all of you are fantastic people. My son-in-law was diagnosed April 2009. He is 30 years old. They have 4 little boys- the oldest is 8 and she just found out she is expecting. They are very excited and happy about the baby. I think it gives them something happy to look forward to. It seems to me that he is progressing fairly rapidly. Last Christmas he notice that he couldn't pull the trigger on his gun with his left hand. He is a policeman. He can no longer walk and needs help to do just about everything. He still goes to work once or twice a week and answers the phone and takes reports. The police force has been really great to help him. So far his speech has not been effected and he just started to use a bipap.
My question is--how do we help. I just feel so helpless. My husband remodeled the shower so that would be easier. I worry about my daughter as she right now is doing everything. They don't want anyone moving in with them or do they want to move in with us or his parents. We have a large family and everyone wants to do something but we just don't know what to do. He is such a great guy and we all love him. He has such a positive attitude and we all love to be with him.
If you could just give me some suggestions as to things he might like-Christmas presents? --things we might not think of, --things we could do for him that may not be obvious to us. Thanks so much and I cannot even express the courage and love that I have felt reading this forum.
My question is--how do we help. I just feel so helpless. My husband remodeled the shower so that would be easier. I worry about my daughter as she right now is doing everything. They don't want anyone moving in with them or do they want to move in with us or his parents. We have a large family and everyone wants to do something but we just don't know what to do. He is such a great guy and we all love him. He has such a positive attitude and we all love to be with him.
If you could just give me some suggestions as to things he might like-Christmas presents? --things we might not think of, --things we could do for him that may not be obvious to us. Thanks so much and I cannot even express the courage and love that I have felt reading this forum.