Kathy,
The single fiber EMG is much more sensitive than the standard EMG. One cannot count on MG showing up on a regular EMG although it can. A normal EMG will not rule out MG. A normal SFEMG, combined with a normal repetitive stim NCV will exclude MG.
Blood work for MG is not the "be all" as far as diagnosing it goes. False negatives to the ANA tests are not uncommon.
Tomorrow, when you have the modified swallow test, if there is something mechanically off with your swallow process, some part of those issues should be caught during the study. True, it is like a snapshot, it only sees what is happening at the moment of the test, but, you also may be having problems you are not consciously aware of. You'll be doing it with a SLP, and radiologist. It is an easy test, not bad at all in the realm of procedures we can be subjected to.
Before you have the actual test, you will probably have a preliminary exam with the SLP. Even though they will have the notes from your referring doctor, the initial evaluation before the test starts is a good time to be a "chatty" Kathy, so they have a good feel for your perception of difficulties.
Good luck, I'll be thinking about you.