OK, so what people are trying to tell you is that an ALS specialist is considered a "good" dr. because they diagnose & treat ALS patients all the time.
If you had heart problems, you're family doctor might be the one to first notice the problem but he might then send you to a cardiologist who deals with your particular problem. (if that is your definition of a "good" dr.- his personality & bedside manner does not come into play here)
In the absence of an EMG (you have not said that you had one), the neurosurgeon was premature in diagnosing you with ALS (IMO).
Where in NJ do you live?
Robert Wood Johnson Medical School has very good recommendations. I do remember a CALS saying they went there (sadly, her PALS passed away). That would be convenient for a north Jersey location.
If you are closer to Philadelphia, there are 2 ALS centers.
1) an ALSA affliated clinic- University of Pennsylvania (at Pennsylvania Hospital)
Dr. Leo McCluskey or Dr. Lauren Elman
2) an ALS-MDA affliated clinic- Drexel University (at Hahnemann Hospital)
Dr. Terry Heilman-Patterson
I would suggest, instead of looking on the internet for symptoms of ALS, look at:
the alsa dot org. site or the als-mda dot org. site and search the various centers & clinics that are in your area or that you would be willing to travel to.