JOSIEM02
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Aug 7, 2009
- Messages
- 134
- Reason
- CALS
- Country
- US
- State
- PA
- City
- waynesboro
My mother in law was diagnosed fed. 2009. She has bulbar onset. Since then she can no longer talk, eat or drink by mouth. Her peg was put in in June. While in the hospital she got Colitsis (spelling) 16 days later she came home. She was doing OK for about 2 weeks then she became dehydrated and malnutritioned, 4 or 5 days later her body swelled and they told us she had Colitsis Cdiff. They finally decided they weren't capable to take care of her and air lifted her to Hershey Medical Center. They are wonderful. They removed part of her colon and now she has a Colostmy bag, she has been in a nursing home for about a month now trying to rebuild her muscles. She has lost so much weight. We are not sure if the muscle loss is due to being bedridden for so long or if it is the progression of the ALS. She can't even take the cap off of a marker, or even pull a card out of an envelope. My husband and I are in the process of buying the house she now rents so we can help take care of her. I am so scared of when she comes home that I won't be ready or able to do this. One thing that will probably sound dumb is since she can't eat I don't even like to drink infront of her how will I beable to cook there. I know she will beable to smell it. I just don't know. I am usually a very strong person but I don't feel that way now. I am just worried. Thanks for listening.