StephanieO
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- Jul 19, 2009
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- Loved one DX
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- NY
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- New York
Hi all,
Following my mother's diagnosis in Feb 09, I started reading this forum and have found wonderful information. My mother has bulbar-onset and appears to be deteriorating rapidly. As a former health-care professional, she is very stubborn and private about her care, so we are trying to help her and yet also respect her wishes.
As a family, we are trying to figure out what level of deterioration indicates the need for hospice. She is 62 years old, and started manifesting symptoms approximately one year ago. As a very private person, she refused diagnostic testing until her voice was almost completely gone. Now she is semi-mobile, can walk slowly for a short period of time with one or two people assisting her, and is best in a wheelchair. Her PEG works wonderfully; she still tries to eat but spits up everything. As of March, her breathing was at 51%. Since then it has gotten much worse. Her breathing is labored, and she wakes up once or twice a night with great difficulty breathing. She refuses a second test, making it hard to get concrete advice from doctors.
How do you know when the time has come for hospice?
Thanks,
Stephanie
Following my mother's diagnosis in Feb 09, I started reading this forum and have found wonderful information. My mother has bulbar-onset and appears to be deteriorating rapidly. As a former health-care professional, she is very stubborn and private about her care, so we are trying to help her and yet also respect her wishes.
As a family, we are trying to figure out what level of deterioration indicates the need for hospice. She is 62 years old, and started manifesting symptoms approximately one year ago. As a very private person, she refused diagnostic testing until her voice was almost completely gone. Now she is semi-mobile, can walk slowly for a short period of time with one or two people assisting her, and is best in a wheelchair. Her PEG works wonderfully; she still tries to eat but spits up everything. As of March, her breathing was at 51%. Since then it has gotten much worse. Her breathing is labored, and she wakes up once or twice a night with great difficulty breathing. She refuses a second test, making it hard to get concrete advice from doctors.
How do you know when the time has come for hospice?
Thanks,
Stephanie