HI,
I just started taking care of a lady that's had ALS for 5 years. she is in a wheelchair, has computer with voice, and can still hold her weight if feet are planted straight. Her left side is weaker than her right, so you have to feed her on right side of mouth in back. Pills also have to be put in the back of her mouth, almost her thoat. She lives on her own with hired caregivers who mostly treat her like crap. She has a little strength left in her arms and legs but very minimal movement. I just try to makeher as happy and comfortable as I can. I don't know a lot about this, but my biggest concern is life expectancy. She's had it a long time...I'm always afraid of choking and what to do if that happens on my shift. I want to make her life as happy as I can considering what she's had to put up with for the past 4 years with these caregivers. They feel like she should be GRATEFUL, when they are GETTING PAID...IT'S THEIR JOB! She is grateful, but to lay her on her back flat and tell her off, threatening to leave her that way. I'm afraid the STESS alone isn't helping her. She eats pretty well, but it takes an hour to feed her. I can't lift her so she got me a lift. The nurse is going to show me how to use it. I quit my other job so I can be available to her if she needs it. I FELL into this job...I've never been in health care, but just seeing how people treat those who are unable to care for themselves has made me decide to go back to school and get a CNA certificate just for the CPR in case something happens. How long can they live like this? I want to HELP HER LIVE A LITTLE. She's smart and feels she's blessed because she can see, hear,has her mind, and has a heart. The only thing depressing her is the way some of these caregivers treat her. Any Ideas, comments, or info would be appreciated.
suzy