Herdaughter
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- Sep 15, 2017
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- Loved one DX
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- 08/2017
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- Oregon
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- Portland
I’m devastated. My mom has been telling her friends and doctors that she doesn’t trust me. She even told my husband that he should be concerned about his own safety. Her friends who have known me since I was a child told me that something wasn’t “right” with my mom. They told me what she said and I’ve been bawling ever since. I would NEVER EVER hurt anyone.
Her friends told me she told her doctors this too. No wonder they have been rather cool with me. Her friends and I went with mom to her latest doc appointment (before I knew about all of this) and they said there is no way that the doctors could believe what mom but I don’t know. I don’t know what to do. My mom won’t go into assisted living as she doesn’t think she needs it yet and refuses Home care. She tells me she is fine and that she has me to care for her as I come down two weeks a month.
What am I supposed to do? Her friends know that I would never hurt my mom which is why they told me what she said. They told me it was as if she just wants me to have a big mess to deal with. That she would go to her grave not trusting me. They suggested that I only go down there with another person so she doesn’t accuse me of anything. WTH?!?!? I can’t believe this is happening. All of this while she’s always thanking me for everything I do for her?
What do I do? I don’t feel like I can call the doctor now because she has told them she is concerned for her safety. Even tho she told the doctor last week when we were all sitting together how wonderful I’ve been caring for her. I welcome any advice. I’m devastated.
Her friends told me she told her doctors this too. No wonder they have been rather cool with me. Her friends and I went with mom to her latest doc appointment (before I knew about all of this) and they said there is no way that the doctors could believe what mom but I don’t know. I don’t know what to do. My mom won’t go into assisted living as she doesn’t think she needs it yet and refuses Home care. She tells me she is fine and that she has me to care for her as I come down two weeks a month.
What am I supposed to do? Her friends know that I would never hurt my mom which is why they told me what she said. They told me it was as if she just wants me to have a big mess to deal with. That she would go to her grave not trusting me. They suggested that I only go down there with another person so she doesn’t accuse me of anything. WTH?!?!? I can’t believe this is happening. All of this while she’s always thanking me for everything I do for her?
What do I do? I don’t feel like I can call the doctor now because she has told them she is concerned for her safety. Even tho she told the doctor last week when we were all sitting together how wonderful I’ve been caring for her. I welcome any advice. I’m devastated.
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