jayswife
Active member
- Joined
- Feb 11, 2016
- Messages
- 71
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 04/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- ct
- City
- stratford
He hasn't talked to me in three days. He's mad over something so he won't even look at me. Told me he can't turn his head to the right to look at me. But when I walked away his head was turned to the right just fine. I looked at him and he knew it and started to smirk. That is what he does when he wants to be nasty to me.
My dad came over to watch tv with him two days ago and later told my mom that he noticed his attitude towards me when I came home from work. He's going to say something to him. My dad has been biting his tongue for a while now about the way Jay treats me when he's in his mood and after witnessing it two days ago, he's had enough. Normally I say don't say anything but not anymore. I need someone to step in. The meds he takes at night make him even meaner. The other night he made an upsetting comment to me and then said he was kidding. He wasn't. He yells at me from the other room while I'm trying to go to sleep that he wants to Facetime his cousin. After not talking to me all day now he wants me to get up and hold the phone so he and translate for him because she won't be able to understand him. Nope, I'm not doing it.
Yesterday he was in the bed all day and didn't speak other than what he needed me to do. Then after his meds he decides he wants to go to the living room to sleep because he's not comfortable. I refused but he kept pushing. I was afraid I would drop him getting him from the bed to the chair and then to the couch. I was crying and he wouldn't even look at me and the looked annoyed. So after getting him settled at 10:30 on the couch he had me up at 11, 11:30, 12:00 at that time I laid on the couch with him but he wouldn't stop asking me to fix his legs, his arms, itch him, rub his eyes, etc. I went back to the bed at 1. He had me up at 1:30, 3, 3:30, 4 and 4:30. At 4:30 he wanted more pain meds. I sit him up and go to give him the meds and I poured too much water in the syringe and soaked him and then had to change him. I then sat on the kitchen floor and cried hysterically.
Now I'm at work and I feel like I cannot take anymore. I don't know what to do.
My dad came over to watch tv with him two days ago and later told my mom that he noticed his attitude towards me when I came home from work. He's going to say something to him. My dad has been biting his tongue for a while now about the way Jay treats me when he's in his mood and after witnessing it two days ago, he's had enough. Normally I say don't say anything but not anymore. I need someone to step in. The meds he takes at night make him even meaner. The other night he made an upsetting comment to me and then said he was kidding. He wasn't. He yells at me from the other room while I'm trying to go to sleep that he wants to Facetime his cousin. After not talking to me all day now he wants me to get up and hold the phone so he and translate for him because she won't be able to understand him. Nope, I'm not doing it.
Yesterday he was in the bed all day and didn't speak other than what he needed me to do. Then after his meds he decides he wants to go to the living room to sleep because he's not comfortable. I refused but he kept pushing. I was afraid I would drop him getting him from the bed to the chair and then to the couch. I was crying and he wouldn't even look at me and the looked annoyed. So after getting him settled at 10:30 on the couch he had me up at 11, 11:30, 12:00 at that time I laid on the couch with him but he wouldn't stop asking me to fix his legs, his arms, itch him, rub his eyes, etc. I went back to the bed at 1. He had me up at 1:30, 3, 3:30, 4 and 4:30. At 4:30 he wanted more pain meds. I sit him up and go to give him the meds and I poured too much water in the syringe and soaked him and then had to change him. I then sat on the kitchen floor and cried hysterically.
Now I'm at work and I feel like I cannot take anymore. I don't know what to do.