- Joined
- Jul 25, 2015
- Messages
- 1,606
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 07/2015
- Country
- US
- State
- tx
- City
- Dallas
Over the past week, Steve has had four falls. He did not tell me about the 1st two. I found out two days later. He didn't want Mike to tell me as he knew I would get upset. This morning, after I left for work he fell two more times.
He and his brother were supposed to go to a study appointment. They never made it. I got an email showing a reschedule and called him to find out why he rescheduled.
Long story shortened, he took his last walk today. He is now using the wheelchair that we have had for months. The injuries this week piled up. A very bruised toe, two dinged up knees, a dinged up back and he hit his head. Each time he fell, Mike had to get him up. Mike has a bad back and I have to go to work each day.
I know how hard it was for Steve to give up walking. He felt that once he got in the chair he would never get out. Today he figured out...that not only is he risking injuries to himself... he is also risking injuring us.
I was so mad and upset on the way home tonight but managed to pull it together before going in to the house. We talked and we cried...over another loss. We talked about the changes that we need to make moving forward.
It's so hard trying to keep your PALS safe while at the same time, not pushing them to accept the changes... before they are ready. This damn disease sucks. Trying to find a silver lining is so hard at times.
He and his brother were supposed to go to a study appointment. They never made it. I got an email showing a reschedule and called him to find out why he rescheduled.
Long story shortened, he took his last walk today. He is now using the wheelchair that we have had for months. The injuries this week piled up. A very bruised toe, two dinged up knees, a dinged up back and he hit his head. Each time he fell, Mike had to get him up. Mike has a bad back and I have to go to work each day.
I know how hard it was for Steve to give up walking. He felt that once he got in the chair he would never get out. Today he figured out...that not only is he risking injuries to himself... he is also risking injuring us.
I was so mad and upset on the way home tonight but managed to pull it together before going in to the house. We talked and we cried...over another loss. We talked about the changes that we need to make moving forward.
It's so hard trying to keep your PALS safe while at the same time, not pushing them to accept the changes... before they are ready. This damn disease sucks. Trying to find a silver lining is so hard at times.