JennyC
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 3, 2016
- Messages
- 232
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 04/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- NY
- City
- Queensbury
Have any of you thought about what you will do after your PALS is gone? What will fill your time? What will your life look like? What do you WANT it to look like?
I had planned on spending the days I normally spend taking care of my mom and using them to hang out with my Gram, unfortunately Gram died 2 months ago...wow, I can't believe its been two months, seems like it was 2 days and yet 10 years at the same time....
I've decided I'm going to sit down and put some thought into what I want my life to look like, I'm going to live with intention. I will give myself a week after the funeral to stay in pajamas and watch TV all day and then I will rejoin the living.
I'm not quite sure what I want my life to look like yet, I know on special days that we would have spent together I want to do for others, whether it means paying for someone else's meal or volunteering.
I think its important to have an idea of what you want to do after because I'm sure after, if there is no plan, there is a lot of floundering and a lot of feeling lost. I don't think this will take it away completely but I do hope it will give me a direction to head.....anyone else have a plan?
I had planned on spending the days I normally spend taking care of my mom and using them to hang out with my Gram, unfortunately Gram died 2 months ago...wow, I can't believe its been two months, seems like it was 2 days and yet 10 years at the same time....
I've decided I'm going to sit down and put some thought into what I want my life to look like, I'm going to live with intention. I will give myself a week after the funeral to stay in pajamas and watch TV all day and then I will rejoin the living.
I'm not quite sure what I want my life to look like yet, I know on special days that we would have spent together I want to do for others, whether it means paying for someone else's meal or volunteering.
I think its important to have an idea of what you want to do after because I'm sure after, if there is no plan, there is a lot of floundering and a lot of feeling lost. I don't think this will take it away completely but I do hope it will give me a direction to head.....anyone else have a plan?