missyg75
New member
- Joined
- Oct 6, 2016
- Messages
- 6
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 02/2012
- Country
- US
- State
- CA
- City
- Stevinson
My husband and I haven't been intimate since early 2013 when it started to become physically more difficult for him. I was also struggling with wondering if I was hurting him or things of that nature as we were trying to find ways to compensate for limitations he had in movement. As his caregiver and a full time teacher and mother I was also just too stressed to want sex at times.
The last few years have been rough to say the least. We grew apart, he was angry with me for not being what his ideal of a wife and caregiver should be. I had to back away completely.
With a recent breathing scare resulting in being put on a ventilator, we've realized we don't want to have him go without us being a couple again and spending as much time together as we can.
We recently tried to have intercourse. It was very different. I know it will never be the same. But how do I do it with someone who physically can only key there?
Looking for any advice and suggestions.
The last few years have been rough to say the least. We grew apart, he was angry with me for not being what his ideal of a wife and caregiver should be. I had to back away completely.
With a recent breathing scare resulting in being put on a ventilator, we've realized we don't want to have him go without us being a couple again and spending as much time together as we can.
We recently tried to have intercourse. It was very different. I know it will never be the same. But how do I do it with someone who physically can only key there?
Looking for any advice and suggestions.