- Joined
- Jan 28, 2016
- Messages
- 198
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 09/2014
- Country
- AUS
- State
- Wa
- City
- Kendenup
Just wondering about what CALS get their care helpers to do. I am so new to this,but we have just received funding for a carer to help out so I can find time to leave the house. I have been so attached to primary caring for my husband that I know it is going to be a task to actually leave and go too far. My husband has respiratory onset and is so reliant on breathing machines,batteries,etc that I rarely go out of his site. I think I will only duck outside to weed my overgrown garden or to plant some of my seedlings that are nearly dead. I will also disappear into my bedroom and sleep for a while. I just wonder how others get along when help arrives into their home. I am so unused to people being in my house. I know It is in the best interest for my PALS that I get a break but was just wondering how others get on??by the way I will continue with showering and toileting etc. we have two lots of 3 hours per week.a