Tracy500
Active member
- Joined
- Jan 28, 2015
- Messages
- 57
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- Wi
- City
- Madison
Ok so my pals (my husband) knows my feelings about how I refuse to have sex or be Intimate with him. He knows my caregiver to him he is my patient. I will snuggle or lay with him but nothing further. I just can't. And seriously it don't work. Not to be gross but it gets up but he can never finish. He can't touch me nothing. He is basically paralyzed. He is severely depressed over this. He knows where I stand on this issue. But he wants me to let him Find it elsewhere? But How? He basically asked if he can cheat? I'm unsure of this and honestly if I'm not giving it to him then I don't mind. How does he think he can find someone to come over to a disabled person? No I'm not setting anything up. I said ask your brother to figure it out. He cant call anyone, type, or use computer either. So how does he think he's gonna get someone and where it's legal? Any suggestions