JennyC
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 3, 2016
- Messages
- 232
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 04/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- NY
- City
- Queensbury
How do youu all deal with taking time for yourselves? I am not my moms main caregiver and she is still fairly independent right now although she has moved in with my aunt. I go down each week either for the day or overnight and hang out with her. My gram is also having health issues as I am myself and many other family members. I haven't seen her in a week and a half, I wanted to get down there this week to see her so I was thinking I would go on Thursday to see my mom, stay over and go see my gram Friday morning and then come back and see my mom some more on Friday afternoon. My best friend who I haven't seen in months because of our clashing schedules has Friday morning free and I would really love and could really use a morning just to hang out and be me and do something for myself but if I do that I won't be able to stay over with my mom and will only get to see her for the day and won't get to see my Gram at all until next week. I feel horribly guilty for even wanting to go catch up with my friend instead...I feel like a bad daughter and a bad grand daughter...I also know its important to take care of myself mentally and physically but I can't shake the guilt.:-?