Watching Mom Go
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- Joined
- Jan 30, 2016
- Messages
- 3
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 12/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- MA
- City
- Taunton
Hi- and Thank you for providing a resource for those of us trying to figure out this journey. My 81 yr mother was diagnosed with ALS in Dec 2014, but had symptoms for years prior to diagnosis. She is now living in an assisted care facility. In the past few weeks I have noted an apparent rapid decline. After seeing her yesterday, it seems to me she may be surrendering.
She has been in bed for 5 days- said it's not comfortable sitting in her wheelchair anymore. She was eating solid food- slowly- but her breathing is quite labored and I'm concerned about choking. She eats alone in her room- her choice.
We have another clinic appt in 2 weeks- I will discuss hospice or a personal care attendant at that time.
Anyone else have experience with a patient who stops fighting and just lets go? Honestly, I don't blame her- there is so very much more to her personal and our family history that I won't go into here, but she is exhausted, physically, mentally and emotionally.
Any suggestions on how I can help ease her transition? She has chosen to forgo intervention, other than comfort care.
She has been in bed for 5 days- said it's not comfortable sitting in her wheelchair anymore. She was eating solid food- slowly- but her breathing is quite labored and I'm concerned about choking. She eats alone in her room- her choice.
We have another clinic appt in 2 weeks- I will discuss hospice or a personal care attendant at that time.
Anyone else have experience with a patient who stops fighting and just lets go? Honestly, I don't blame her- there is so very much more to her personal and our family history that I won't go into here, but she is exhausted, physically, mentally and emotionally.
Any suggestions on how I can help ease her transition? She has chosen to forgo intervention, other than comfort care.