Green Queen
Very helpful member
- Joined
- Mar 30, 2015
- Messages
- 1,304
- Reason
- DX MND
- Diagnosis
- 4/2016
- Country
- AUS
- State
- Western Australia
- City
- By the beach
I feel very...betraying...to Wayne to post this. He doesn't read the forum...but it's hard to admit this kind of stuff...
I need help in getting him to help me without me having to nag or ask all the time!
He often says he's not a mind reader, but as an example, I've needed help putting my knickers on for nearly 18months...should I still have to ask for help when he's in the room? Seriously...do I? Am I expecting too much? This isn't a rant...I really don't know!
He's great in the fact he doesn't stress over clean washing all over the lounge, but doesn't think to fold when he's watching the telly.
He works very hard, 12 hour shifts at the port, so am I expecting too much?I don't cook anymore, washing dishes is beyond me now, but I empty/load the dishwasher, the bin, tidy benches...
He will put ONE load of washing on..........I take it out of the machine to wash more. The kids and I hang it out and bring it in. We are trying to fold as we take it off the line, but that's dependent on time of day, weather etc.
I'm not really complaining (too much!) because he really has grown immensely since we got married. Back then he couldn't even cook toast!
He worked on mine sites for a long time. I didn't work so had ample time to do everything so when he came home, it was purely family time.
I don't blame him...I just really need to know how to help him! My hand is getting worse and worse (he doesn't deal well with progression) and I want to keep home life as positive as I can.
Help!
God bless, Janelle x
I need help in getting him to help me without me having to nag or ask all the time!
He often says he's not a mind reader, but as an example, I've needed help putting my knickers on for nearly 18months...should I still have to ask for help when he's in the room? Seriously...do I? Am I expecting too much? This isn't a rant...I really don't know!
He's great in the fact he doesn't stress over clean washing all over the lounge, but doesn't think to fold when he's watching the telly.
He works very hard, 12 hour shifts at the port, so am I expecting too much?I don't cook anymore, washing dishes is beyond me now, but I empty/load the dishwasher, the bin, tidy benches...
He will put ONE load of washing on..........I take it out of the machine to wash more. The kids and I hang it out and bring it in. We are trying to fold as we take it off the line, but that's dependent on time of day, weather etc.
I'm not really complaining (too much!) because he really has grown immensely since we got married. Back then he couldn't even cook toast!
He worked on mine sites for a long time. I didn't work so had ample time to do everything so when he came home, it was purely family time.
I don't blame him...I just really need to know how to help him! My hand is getting worse and worse (he doesn't deal well with progression) and I want to keep home life as positive as I can.
Help!
God bless, Janelle x