smoochiegal
Active member
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2015
- Messages
- 87
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 08/2014
- Country
- CA
- State
- Ontario
- City
- Otonabee
Honestly, I wish that Ontario would allow dying with dignity. My sweet man is so done. He cried and cried yesterday. Saying he is defeated, and just wants it to be over. It is heartbreaking.
He can swallow only sometimes, on a good day, I get 1 boost shake into him and maybe 5 or 6 bites of soup. He does not want a feeding tube. So what, Does he just have to slowly starve to death? I am so angry, scared, heart broken and done.
I don't know what to do or say.
I don't want to talk to people, but I am angry when they don't call or come.
I want to be alone and yet with people.
I want him to be able to choose when and how to die, but I don't want him to go yet.
I want life to be normal again, but then I remember that there will never be normal again as he will not be here with me.
I am so .... I don't even know... I guess broken.
He can swallow only sometimes, on a good day, I get 1 boost shake into him and maybe 5 or 6 bites of soup. He does not want a feeding tube. So what, Does he just have to slowly starve to death? I am so angry, scared, heart broken and done.
I don't know what to do or say.
I don't want to talk to people, but I am angry when they don't call or come.
I want to be alone and yet with people.
I want him to be able to choose when and how to die, but I don't want him to go yet.
I want life to be normal again, but then I remember that there will never be normal again as he will not be here with me.
I am so .... I don't even know... I guess broken.