HeatherFeather
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Nov 30, 2014
- Messages
- 284
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 10/2014
- Country
- CA
- State
- Quebec
- City
- Tiny town w/no stoplight!
Ron is stuck in a wheel chair with no chance of going out in the car as his chair doesn't fit. Actually it's a loaner until he gets his own and also his new Dodge Grand Caravan...all of this sometime in February. Meantime, I am getting stir crazy and need to do a bit of shopping and have lunch with friends but I can't leave him alone for, say, three hours. It takes me half an hour to get to the next town to shop, as we live in the "sticks" LOL! However, that being said, even if I did manage to get someone to stay with Ron, I would feel sooooo guilty leaving him that long. I haven't left his side since he started limping in June. How do you cope with a case of the guilts because you'd like to go out to do something by yourself? I feel so terrible that he can't be with me. We always had a weekly shopping and lunch together for as long as we've been a couple. How do you handle this?