AZmujer
Active member
- Joined
- Nov 23, 2014
- Messages
- 32
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- AZ
- City
- phoenix
Hello:
This is my first visit here, and I just wanted to introduce myself. I intend to explore the forums to look for help and advice.
My husband, 62, was diagnosed ALS in June — he was walking with a limp and had a weak left arm. Five months later he cannot walk, is wheelchair dependent and rapidly losing function of his arms. We knew when the diagnosis came we were in for an arduous journey but didn't expect the pace to be like this.
I know that everyone's journey is unique, but I am wondering if I should fasten my seatbelt a little tighter. The doctors keep talking about a "plateau" but it seems like a myth. And I'm terrified I won't be able to be help him. He's a big guy (though shrinking) and although I am strong and capable, I am smaller than he is. We have a good medical team and are connected to the ALS Society, and the advice has been "stay one step ahead but not too far ahead." But I already feel like I am constantly a step or two behind.
I've been to a couple of support groups, but found that 20 percent of the people did 80 percent of the talking (is this typical?). I couldn't get practical answers to my questions before the time was up. So glad to have found this resource with people who can truly understand what I am going through and maybe hold my hand a bit.
See you online.
This is my first visit here, and I just wanted to introduce myself. I intend to explore the forums to look for help and advice.
My husband, 62, was diagnosed ALS in June — he was walking with a limp and had a weak left arm. Five months later he cannot walk, is wheelchair dependent and rapidly losing function of his arms. We knew when the diagnosis came we were in for an arduous journey but didn't expect the pace to be like this.
I know that everyone's journey is unique, but I am wondering if I should fasten my seatbelt a little tighter. The doctors keep talking about a "plateau" but it seems like a myth. And I'm terrified I won't be able to be help him. He's a big guy (though shrinking) and although I am strong and capable, I am smaller than he is. We have a good medical team and are connected to the ALS Society, and the advice has been "stay one step ahead but not too far ahead." But I already feel like I am constantly a step or two behind.
I've been to a couple of support groups, but found that 20 percent of the people did 80 percent of the talking (is this typical?). I couldn't get practical answers to my questions before the time was up. So glad to have found this resource with people who can truly understand what I am going through and maybe hold my hand a bit.
See you online.