poppies
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Apr 2, 2013
- Messages
- 233
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 02/2013
- Country
- SA
- State
- Kwazulu Natal
- City
- Durban
Hi everyone. I could not find a thread on this topic and would really appreciate feedback. I do everything for my husband as he has lost his speech and use of his hands and arms. He is still walking, although with difficulty. It is worrying me that he is on his own when I go out. I try to keep it to the bare minimum but have to go out to fetch the children from school and to lift them to sports etc. Sometimes the lifting is in the evening. He cannot feed himself so I don't have to worry that he will choke on food while I am out, but my concerns are around safety and security. What if he has a fall? What if there is a break in (there was a burglary a few houses away a few nights ago)? I just don't know what to do. We live in the suburbs with no family or friends near enough to pop in when I go out. Does this mean we need to consider having someone move in with us (perhaps my mother) to be here when I go out. Sorry if I am rambling. Please tell me how you handle this issue in your lives. Thanks so much.