fullmoonhope
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Parents married 53 years. Dad with ALS failing quickly ...just entered nursing home/hospice. Diagnosed in January, 72 years old.
Mom has moderate to severe Alzhiemers and is in memory care facility since mid-July. They were together in assisted living until mid-July. Doctors say they've never seen an ALS progress so quickly, almost day to day degression.
Question is, do I take my mother to visit my dad? She gets upset because she doesn't understand (learn) his situation but it seems so cruel to keep them completely separate during this heart-wrenching time. When she isn't with him, she just wants to visit him and wonders where he is... of course my dad's mental capacity is still quick, although he is very depressed and exhausted of course. I don't know what will make this situation any worse.....
Any words of wisdom?
God Bless you all who are touched by this horrible disease.
Mom has moderate to severe Alzhiemers and is in memory care facility since mid-July. They were together in assisted living until mid-July. Doctors say they've never seen an ALS progress so quickly, almost day to day degression.
Question is, do I take my mother to visit my dad? She gets upset because she doesn't understand (learn) his situation but it seems so cruel to keep them completely separate during this heart-wrenching time. When she isn't with him, she just wants to visit him and wonders where he is... of course my dad's mental capacity is still quick, although he is very depressed and exhausted of course. I don't know what will make this situation any worse.....
Any words of wisdom?
God Bless you all who are touched by this horrible disease.