My Dad was just diagnosed. In fact we are having our first follow-up since hearing the news tomorrow. We have talked briefly and all he keeps saying is (1) he doesn't want to live with me and my family because he doesn't want to be a burden and (2) no ventilator. He doesn't quite understand the ventilators PALS use so I can't quite tell if he's referring to no ventilation in the hospital or no portable ventilation.
He's 86 and it's an unusual age for an ALS diagnosis. I am struggling with allowing him to make his decision and wanting him to be around. He is still mobile, though quite frail due to extreme weight loss. His speech is getting pretty bad but is still somewhat understandable.
Right now I am investigating care alternatives. It will be difficult for him to stay in his apartment without round the clock care and I have a young son that I also need to care for.
I can't fight with him. He's an adult. Any advice from anyone who has btdt? I realize there are not many
He's 86 and it's an unusual age for an ALS diagnosis. I am struggling with allowing him to make his decision and wanting him to be around. He is still mobile, though quite frail due to extreme weight loss. His speech is getting pretty bad but is still somewhat understandable.
Right now I am investigating care alternatives. It will be difficult for him to stay in his apartment without round the clock care and I have a young son that I also need to care for.
I can't fight with him. He's an adult. Any advice from anyone who has btdt? I realize there are not many