sallyb
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I don't know how to start talking about how crushed I feel. Things at home continue to deteriorate, I feel terrified each time before I go home because I know there's some new horrible reality to adjust to. I really have been trying to "just get on with it" and when I am there I help out & I never cry, I always try & make them happy but more and more I feel like I am filling up with sadness. I feel totally disconnected from most things, it's like I'm sleepwalking through most days. Work is a struggle as I have to be a motivator/problem fixer/filled to the brim with empathy and compassion but I just feel like walking in and saying I am done. I know I sound horrible but I just feel like I can't care about people's problems - it's like I just can't connect with any of them. I don't know if it's the misery from the rest of my life seeping into work or if I just don't enjoy my job anymore so I don't know if taking time off will make me feel any better. I have no grand plan after my majestic imaginary exit from work needless to say.
I am terrified of what is to come and it's that mix of dread and sadness that sits on my chest. I have been chanting "one day at a time, one day at a time, focus on the here and now" but I find it so hard when every day brings a new loss - it's like being slapped in the face with it. I know it is a process (the disease and the grieving process) that we have to go through but I am so afraid I sometimes just wish it was all over and there was no more suffering.
I don't know what I'm asking for here. I have read really heart - breaking, articulate and beautiful posts here lately that have said all of this and more before. Maybe I'm just looking to feel connected to people that understand.
Thank you all.
I am terrified of what is to come and it's that mix of dread and sadness that sits on my chest. I have been chanting "one day at a time, one day at a time, focus on the here and now" but I find it so hard when every day brings a new loss - it's like being slapped in the face with it. I know it is a process (the disease and the grieving process) that we have to go through but I am so afraid I sometimes just wish it was all over and there was no more suffering.
I don't know what I'm asking for here. I have read really heart - breaking, articulate and beautiful posts here lately that have said all of this and more before. Maybe I'm just looking to feel connected to people that understand.
Thank you all.