Chase_Corin
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Nov 24, 2010
- Messages
- 135
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 11/2010
- Country
- CA
- State
- On
- City
- Perth, Ontario
I am so relieved, you guys have no idea.
We got a call wednesday afternoon that Dad needed to be at the hospital for the feeding tube operation at 8:00 that night. So mom and I frantically start packing up everything he needs. Bipap, medications, walker, wheelchair and all of that.
I had to work at 4 pm and mom wanted me at home so she wouldn't worry about the house or the pets and so that I could keep tabs on my grandmother. Which is fine because there are things that my mom does for my dad that he will not allow me to do for him like help him get dresses and bathroom help. (I have no problem with this)
So Mom calls after 8 and they are still waiting for a bed, finally around 11 pm they get dad settled in a room.
They were suposed to do the operation on Thursday but because it is "elective" he got bumped for somthing more urgent. Mom ended up sleeping in a chair in the lounge, I wasn't happy about that. Dad was just so nervous about being in the hospital he didn't want her out of hearing range of him. Since his last operation left him in a coma for 3 months and a very long and laborous recooperation. I can understand his nerves and respect his need to have somone there I just wish that person could have been me, but mom wouldn't have it any other way.
Dad's surgery finally took place on friday morning it was a quick procedure and they froze the area and put the tube in within an hour all said and done.
Once it was over dad relaxed compleetly, he had been so pent up over the procedure that I was worried he was going to have a panic attack.
Today they are giving him his first tube feeding using a pump over an extended period (about 6 hours) and once the doctor checks him out Mom and Dad will be headed home.
I have my fingers crossed that I will have my Daddy home for fathers day. I am making him his favorite carrott cake, he might not eat much of it but I know he will love it regardless.
Happy Fathers day everyone weather in person or in spirit we love you.
We got a call wednesday afternoon that Dad needed to be at the hospital for the feeding tube operation at 8:00 that night. So mom and I frantically start packing up everything he needs. Bipap, medications, walker, wheelchair and all of that.
I had to work at 4 pm and mom wanted me at home so she wouldn't worry about the house or the pets and so that I could keep tabs on my grandmother. Which is fine because there are things that my mom does for my dad that he will not allow me to do for him like help him get dresses and bathroom help. (I have no problem with this)
So Mom calls after 8 and they are still waiting for a bed, finally around 11 pm they get dad settled in a room.
They were suposed to do the operation on Thursday but because it is "elective" he got bumped for somthing more urgent. Mom ended up sleeping in a chair in the lounge, I wasn't happy about that. Dad was just so nervous about being in the hospital he didn't want her out of hearing range of him. Since his last operation left him in a coma for 3 months and a very long and laborous recooperation. I can understand his nerves and respect his need to have somone there I just wish that person could have been me, but mom wouldn't have it any other way.
Dad's surgery finally took place on friday morning it was a quick procedure and they froze the area and put the tube in within an hour all said and done.
Once it was over dad relaxed compleetly, he had been so pent up over the procedure that I was worried he was going to have a panic attack.
Today they are giving him his first tube feeding using a pump over an extended period (about 6 hours) and once the doctor checks him out Mom and Dad will be headed home.
I have my fingers crossed that I will have my Daddy home for fathers day. I am making him his favorite carrott cake, he might not eat much of it but I know he will love it regardless.
Happy Fathers day everyone weather in person or in spirit we love you.