DeansWife
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- Oct 18, 2011
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- 08/2011
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- Fairhope
I'm back again with the same issue between my dh and me. He's choking on everything, thick, thin, smooth, grainy it doesn't matter. He is having a lot of difficulty getting his meds down. During dinner tonight I asked him if he wasn't getting tired of all the choking when eating. He signaled me with a thumb's up. I said, you know you have a option. He asked what and I said the Peg tube. His response was blaah! :sad:
I know it's his decision but it's really rough on him and me (stressful for me), all the constant choking, him not eating as much as he should and losing weight. I'm really frustrated by it all! Would love to just slap him silly sometimes!
That said, I wonder how much of his expected time left will be lost because he refuses the Peg tube? He certainly can't continue not eating, lose more weight and survive. The bad thing is that his arms and legs are not that bad yet. He walkes with a walker (sometimes he just takes off without it) and can use his arm/hands for most everything except lifting and unscrewing tight lids. I can't even say why he won't consider it because he won't talk about it. How can you make a decision if you won't even talk about it?
Thanks for listening - I needed to blow off some steam. :x
I know it's his decision but it's really rough on him and me (stressful for me), all the constant choking, him not eating as much as he should and losing weight. I'm really frustrated by it all! Would love to just slap him silly sometimes!
That said, I wonder how much of his expected time left will be lost because he refuses the Peg tube? He certainly can't continue not eating, lose more weight and survive. The bad thing is that his arms and legs are not that bad yet. He walkes with a walker (sometimes he just takes off without it) and can use his arm/hands for most everything except lifting and unscrewing tight lids. I can't even say why he won't consider it because he won't talk about it. How can you make a decision if you won't even talk about it?
Thanks for listening - I needed to blow off some steam. :x